December 2021 Tea Time: a rambling update i recorded after recording for 4 hours and drinking why too much coffee i shouldn't have had :') LETS GOO

Just one thing quickly i want to make sure i make super clear because listening to it while editing i was worried someone might take something i said wrong-  at around 8:44 i make a comment like "what is wrong with people???" while im talking about how uncomfortable some certain reactions/comments/messages made me.

 I want to clarify that when i say 'wtf is wrong with people' and refer to people twisting my work into something 'disgusting' i am in no way referring to people's kinks!  The thing that made me uncomfortable was the brazen, bold disregard for my personal space or me as a person or the fact that the audio in question was posted on a public, SFW site. I was, and still am, uncomfortable because for me it broke the safe, consensual boundary that kinks should reside in and came off as how they really felt, irl and as a woman, it made me feel both uncomfortable and unsafe that someone would so brazenly and publicly share a desire to own another person and have sex with them regardless of legitimate consent.  In private, personal porn, i have no problems with this as a kink.  but it did not feel that way in MANY of the comments and messages I received. 

I just wanted to make sure that was super clear because I don't want anyone to feel ashamed for their kinks, which they enjoy, in private, with the consent of all participating parties. oki thanks <3