Artist Statement Why Don’t You Marry Yourself? is a visual love letter to the self. It reclaims the language of weddings—dresses, vows, veils—not in celebration of romantic partnership, but of healing. Born from a dismissal of my desire for commitment, this series became a ceremony for my own becoming.
Each portrait is a vow made in real time, to the version of me that stood in that place. Together, they form a record of choosing myself—over and over—not in spite of rejection, but because I finally saw myself as worthy.
This is not about loneliness. It’s about devotion. The sacred kind. The kind that starts at home.
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The following is more information for the planned project.
Concept This conceptual self-portrait series follows a year-long healing journey through the metaphor of self-marriage. Inspired by a conversation in which a long-term partner dismissed the idea of marriage, the artist turns inward—photographing herself in different wedding dresses across rural settings that reflect emotional seasons. Each image is paired with a vow written to herself at that stage of healing. The project reclaims commitment, celebrates autonomy, and honors the sacred act of choosing yourself.
Creative Approaches
Photograph 5–6 wedding dress portraits, each representing a phase of emotional healing
Match each shoot to a seasonal landscape or rural setting that echoes the emotional tone
Write personal vows as if addressing yourself from that moment in time
Themes to ExploreAutonomy and self-commitment
Healing from rejection and emotional abandonment
The body as bride, as vessel of devotion
Cycles of grief, growth, and re-rooting
Sacredness outside of traditional marriage
**Above photograph by Aimlee Photography of Taylor & Rob's Las Vegas Elopement.
This is NOT my photograph and all copyright belongs to Aimlee Photography. Photo accompanies this post as it was one of my reference images saved for the "Why Don't You Marry Yourself" project.
For more photos and information on the photographer or to book her please visit:
https://www.aimleephotography.com/recent-work/2023/3/6/taylor-and-rob-valentines-elopement-at-sure-thing-chapel-on-35mm-film-and-super-8 **