Dear Patrons,
I hope this finds you all well!
There’s a proliferation of videos and articles out there produced by homespun ‘relationship gurus’ who label all kinds of perfectly harmless traits and behaviours as ‘red flags’. We’re given a never-ending list of bogus, frivolous reasons to cut people out of our lives, encouraging alienation and isolation. This video looks at some of the complexities of the concept. My hope is to encourage a more cautious approach — one that takes appropriate measures to guard against destructive individuals but doesn't throw out good folks like trash.
Many thanks for everyone's responses regarding the ladder/stairs metaphor post. It's for a video down the line. I wanted to give plenty of time for people to answer over many weeks, but there was an avalanche of responses! Much appreciated. As I said, there were no wrong answers. But it'll all become clear — hopefully amusingly so!
Wishing you all a safe and cool night.
Peace,
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