DESCRIPTION
Grave's been through a lot of traumatic things, so the union of 2 bodies is sacred to him. He's still a highly sexual being as you can see from his imagination, in fact, it's possible he wants it more than Ellie does, but he fights his most primal instincts and tries to be patient because he doesn't want to bring chaos into Ellie's life. His secrets are too painful to address at the moment. Think of any child forced to grow up in a warzone and you'll get an idea of how bad it was for him. If you're still not sure, there's a movie called Come and See that addresses this topic. It's a really brutal war film so be aware of that.