Early Upload: A History of Dating

How has dating in America changed over time? How has the quest for companionship been shaped by technology, capitalism, and trends? From personal ads to astrology to singles bars to dating apps to artificial intelligence... is the future of dating ugly? Also...is "having a boyfriend embarrassing now"? Enjoy this early upload! It won't be available on youtube until Monday, November 24.

Sources & Further Reading

Intimate Matters: A History of Sexuality in America (JohnD'Emilio)

Matrimony, Inc.: From Personal Ads to Swiping Right, a Story of America Looking for Love (Francesca Beauman)

https://www.cowgirlmagazine.com/busy-bee-club/

https://www.jstor.org/stable/24497074?seq=1

https://prohibition.themobmuseum.org/the-history/how-prohibition-changed-american-culture/dating-during-prohibition/

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https://www.wgbh.org/news/local/2017-10-25/umass-lowell-historian-on-sexual-harassment-in-the-lowell-mills

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https://wordinblack.com/2024/05/will-ai-change-how-black-women-date/

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https://www.nytimes.com/packages/pdf/business/leonhardt.pdf