I'm shy and prone to overthinking when I'm with someone. There are a couple of basic questions about lesbian sex that usually pop up in my head, and I thought I'd ask them here, as my sex education was pretty wack and I've learned most things from the internet anyway. (Idk how explicit I can be here so sorry if it's too much) What do people use as lube when having spontaneous sex? Saliva? Or does everyone just have lube on hand/not use lube? How should I start when going down on someone with a vulva? (I've never done it before) Do people use dental dams or mostly just get tested and communicate with their partners about it? How do I start when fingering someone if I don't like it being done to me and don't really know how it feels? Any resources where I can learn about this stuff?
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